i've searched the forums and haven't come up with much, although you'd think if anyone would know who came up with it, when, and where, it'd be someone here.
all i could find was a post from bobo:
so we know the rhyme was well enough known by 1894 in boston. but someone had to have come up with it. my first thought was that the someone was from fall river, but maybe not. it was, after all, a case that had attracted national, even world-wide attention, although i think the rhyme most likely originated in the east coast, if not massachusetts or the surrounding areas of fall river.This from The News-Herald. ( Hillsboro, Highland Co., Ohio) Feb. 15, 1894..... "A Boston lady who brings up her children very carefully, and never allows them to see a newspaper, found them, on going into her nursery the other day, singing: "Lizzie Borden took an ax, and gave her mother twenty whacks; after seeing what she had done, she gave her father twenty-one".
This is the earliest reference I have found to this rhyme. In 120 yrs. we have added 20 whacks! The rhyme seems to have come out shortly after the murders/trial.
according to wikipedia there were a few versions:
Folk rhyme[edit]
The case was memorialized in a popular skipping-rope rhyme sung to the tune of the then-popular song Ta-ra-ra Boom-de-ay.[58][59]
Lizzie Borden took an ax
And gave her mother forty whacks.
When she saw what she had done,
She gave her father forty-one.
Also
Lizzie Borden took an axe
Gave her mother forty whacks,
Then she hid behind the door,
And gave her father forty more.
Also
Lizzie Borden took an axe
and gave her mother forty whacks,
when the job was finally done
gave her father forty one
Folklore says that the rhyme was made up by an anonymous writer as a tune to sell newspapers. Others attribute it to the ubiquitous, but anonymous, "Mother Goose".[60] In reality, Lizzie's stepmother suffered 18[61] or 19[45] blows; her father suffered 11 blows.
what i recall from my childhood is:
lizzie borden took an axe
gave her mother forty whacks
when she saw what she had done
she gave her father forty-one
it was, as the wikipedia article says, a song sung as one jump-roped, similar to 'ring around the rosie,' and as often cited at the time.
the truth is, i don't recall the first time i heard it, except it was sometime in elementary school, during recess or lunch, from one or more of my schoolmates. it strikes me as strange now, given the events happened about 100 years earlier, and were so gruesome and explicitly portrayed, even in the rhyme (unlike, for instance, 'ring around the rosie').
how and why did this so-called 'nursery rhyme' catch on the way it did, to the point where it was commonly known 100 or so years later? who actually wrote it? someone had to have come up with it, regardless of which version.
i figure if anyone will know, it's someone here :)
even if no one here knows, because it's become folklore for so long, maybe someone will have a little bit of light to shed on it, if not, i'd be interested in how and when people here recall first hearing it.
i don't recall a first time hearing it, myself, except that it had to have been sometime in the 4th grade or earlier. i didn't think anything about it at the time; it was just a song sung while playing jump rope, but the name lizzie borden stuck in my mind because of the rhyme.
so we know it was common enough in 1894, a year after the trial was over, and it's very likely that at some point not long afterwards, lizzie heard it being sung. it's also probable that the kids who sang it knew it some way that they were being "naughty," that their parents probably wouldn't approve if they knew.
do you recall the first time you heard it? i wonder, since it's unlikely kids over the past 10 years or so have played jump rope, if they know much or anything about it. probably some from the ricci tv show and the (terrible) lizzie chronicles show, but do they know anything else?