{"id":1256,"date":"2008-03-23T12:53:06","date_gmt":"2008-03-23T16:53:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/MondoLizzie\/2008\/03\/23\/lizzie-borden-insight\/"},"modified":"2008-03-23T12:53:06","modified_gmt":"2008-03-23T16:53:06","slug":"lizzie-borden-insight","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/lizzie-borden-insight\/","title":{"rendered":"Lizzie Borden Insight"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A recent LiveJournal entry by <a href=\"http:\/\/jennifer-simon.livejournal.com\/3637.html\">Jennifer Simon<\/a> made me think that maybe she had some insight into Lizzie&#8217;s state of mind in 1892. Of course, it wouldn&#8217;t have been a hassle over computers and downloading, but the proximity issues combined with insecurities and communication problems would certainly add to the violent mix.<\/p>\n<p>The entry is not only well written, but an eloquent psychological analysis of what it must be like to be 30 and living at home. <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Lizzie Borden took an ax. . . . .<br \/>\nWhen I was growing up Lizzie Borden was my hero. She was bold, she was honest, and she did very little to cover up what she did. I can just imagine her with the police: &#8220;My mother? Oh no, she&#8217;s not my mother. She&#8217;s my step mother. Murdered you say? With an ax? Well that&#8217;s something, isn&#8217;t it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The more I think about her, the more it feels like I can relate. She was in her thirties (which I will be, eventually) and still living with her parents (which I am, currently). And her alibi? She wasn&#8217;t killing her parents, she was in the shed binging on pears! Personally I wouldn&#8217;t eat in our shed, and I don&#8217;t binge on fruit (except rasins). Lizzie and I weren&#8217;t separated at birth but I think we would have been friends.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not actually going to hurt my parents. My mom just made me extrememly angry this morning. Apparently, I download too much and that makes our internet slow. I have not done anything different. I have not been downloading more lately. I have not done anything. Yet I pretty much daily face her accusations and lectures about how I&#8217;m being inconsiderate (wtf? Get a freaking hobby mom!). She has no idea how to use the computer. Seriously! A few weeks ago I bought her a set of card games and she had to ask me how to close the program. Umm . . . . try the x button at the top right? And yet she feels justified in telling me that my usage is too much. And she decided that *we* agreed that I would never download anything ever again. HELL NO. I never agreed to that. She doesn&#8217;t pay any attention to reality. She just doesn&#8217;t. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m so mad at her. She just isn&#8217;t all there (and she&#8217;s getting worse with age). It&#8217;s so frustrating, I give up. Forget it! I&#8217;m just not going to talk to her anymore. She doesn&#8217;t know what she&#8217;s talking about and there&#8217;s no convincing her otherwise.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A recent LiveJournal entry by Jennifer Simon made me think that maybe she had some insight into Lizzie&#8217;s state of mind in 1892. Of course, it wouldn&#8217;t have been a hassle over computers and downloading, but the proximity issues combined with insecurities and communication problems would certainly add to the violent mix. The entry is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-6-degrees-of-separation","category-on-the-web"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1256"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1256\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lizzieandrewborden.com\/mondolizzie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}