A snippet from the article:
However, Howe would be cut off unless she followed his terms to the letter.
She was not to marry a Borden or furnish them with any money or property and was to never live with a Borden, except for her mother.
Hey Doug-Oh!
I was doing a cursory examination of some Borden genealogy and found that Grace (Hartley) Howe's mother, Mary, was the daughter of Cook Borden. Of course, Cook is brother to Abraham and to the infamous Ladowick Borden as well, among others.
Now Cook had married a Borden! She was Mary A. Bessey, who was the daughter of Silas and Avis (Borden) Bessey.
Since Laddy's wife killed his and her children and committed suicide, it's possible Dr. Hartley, Grace's father, wanted distance from them.
It's possible as part of his reason for disowning *Bordens.*
Also, he might have thought some were *crazy* because they were a bit in-bred, within his own wife's line.
(I will look for Avis- I recall her name.)
I was wondering about these genealogies *distancing* themselves from our Bordens. I have noticed a few times in books - not on-line genealogies but real books with authors c. 1900's- they seem to have left out our Bordens! I had to figure the relationship of the Gardners to the Bordens simply because one sister's husband was not named and he was William Bradford Morse, JVM's brother! The Bordens are named within their own line, but other's lines leave them out sometimes, is what I'm getting at.